Njengomthetho, abantu bokholo lobuKristu ngokushesha noma kamuva baphapathiza izingane zabo. Khetha u-godfather nomama wengane ephethe umsebenzi. Emva kwakho konke, lokhu kungukuphila, futhi ngifuna, ukuthi labo abathandana nabo besikhathi esizayo kuleli qembu nabo babalulekile. Ungakhetha onkulunkulukazi bakho ngokwakho umngane noma umngane, kungaba izihlobo zakho. Kodwa nokho kukhona eminye imithetho futhi ivimbela kule ndaba.
Onkulunkulukazi, ngokombono wesonto lobuKristu, ngeke kube njalo:
- abazali bomntwana;
- abantu abanengqondo abangenampilo;
- amantombazane ngaphansi kwe-13 nabafana abangaphansi kweminyaka engu-15;
- amakholi namademoni;
- imibhangqwana (ayikwazi ukubhapathiza ingane eyodwa, umlingani ngamunye unelungelo lokubhapathiza izingane ezahlukene kuphela);
- owesifazane phakathi nezinsuku ezibucayi (kubalulekile ukuhlehlisa umkhosi noma ukhethe omunye ozokhethwa).
Ngaphezu kwemithetho yobuKristu, kukhona okuhlukile i-omens. Ukuzilandela noma cha kungesokudla sakho nesinqumo sakho.
Kubantu bakholelwa ukuthi onkulunkulukazi ayikwazi:
- amantombazane angashadile (uma ebhapathiza intombazane) nabafana abangashadile (uma bebhapathiza umfana);
- Abesifazane abakhulelwe (bathi, kubi kabi ngowesifazane okhulelwe kanye no-godson).
Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma othile esevele engumntwana wengane yakho, awukwazi ukuwashintsha. Imikhosi yokuqala yokubhapathizwa ibhekwa njengokungokoqobo futhi engcwele.
Source: ihappymama.ru