Chikondi kwa wokondedwa: njira ndi njira. Maganizo a chikondi kwa wokondedwa: chibwenzi, kuyankhulana ndi kuzindikira. Chikondi kwa wokondedwa kunyumba: m'mawa, tsiku lonse ndi usiku. Chikondi kwa wokondedwa ndi manja awo: mothandizidwa ndi sayansi, zithunzi ndi mizere ingapo. Kodi mungakonzekere bwanji madzulo kwa mnyamata?
Kuyambira kubadwa kwa mawu oti "chikondi" m'milomo yathu, tikuyesetsa kupeza moyo wathu. Ndipo tikapeza, sitingasangalale ndi chimwemwe chathu. Koma pano akupita miyezi ingapo, mwina miyezi isanu ndi umodzi kapena chaka, ndi chithumwa onse ubale chimazilala. Zingatanthauze kuti mukudziwa kale za mumaikonda inu nonse muli kale mu malo odyera zonse, zikwi moni m'bandakucha anayenda mwa nyanja. Koma pambuyo ponse, nkofunikira kuthandizira kuti ukhale ndi chibwenzi! Ndikutsimikiza kuti muli ndi malingaliro ambiri pamutu mwanu. Kuonjezera apo, chikondi cha mnyamata wokondedwa chimafuna kuti munthu ayandikire. Izi ndizothandiza. Koma ndiroleni ine ndikuthandizeni inu pang'ono ndi kukulimbikitsani inu.
Maganizo a chikondi
Apatsanso kutsindika mfundo yakuti ndi kulakwa kukhulupirira kuti chikondi chiyenera kuthandizidwa pokhapokha pa maholide. Inde, pa masiku apadera otero mungapange mphatso zamtengo wapatali mogwirizana ndi zofuna za osankhidwa ndi zopempha zawo. Koma ntchito yathu ndi chikondi kwa wokondedwa tsiku lililonse. Choncho ndikufuna kukumbukira njira zomwe mungagwiritsire ntchito maulendo angapo pa sabata. Uli nawo:
- Nthawi. Muikireni chakudya chamakono kapena pitani mumsewu wamadzulo. Phunzirani kutenga nthawi yopanda ola limodzi kwa ola limodzi. Adzakhala nokha payekha - zowonjezereka kuchoka kukumbukira zokondana wina ndi mnzake, za momwe mumamvera.
- Zolinga zamakono ndi maloto. Pamene mudakumana naye poyamba, kumbukirani zomwe zinakukokerani? Muyenera kumamukumbutsa zomwe zimakugwirizanitsani. Kulankhulana, kugawana malingaliro anu ndi ziyembekezo. Konzani limodzi. Mutha kunong'oneza (ndikukhulupirirani, mnyamatayu ali ndi wina woti akambirane).
- Maganizo. Chimene mumamverera ndi chinthu chofunikira kwambiri. Musaiwale, monga momwe mungathere kuti musonyeze zomwe zikutanthauzanji kwa inu. Zomveka. Vomerezani chikondi chanu. Siyani mauthenga abwino pafiriji, mu thumba lake, ma sms-ke.
Chikondi panyumba
Eya, mwapeza nthawi yoyenera ya kukondana. Ndinakumbukira momwe chirichonse chinali zamatsenga pamene mudakumana nawo poyamba. Pamutu pa chithunzichi, pamene inu mumangiriza kumanga nyumba m'nyumba yatsopano ndikukambirana za kutulutsidwa kwa Album yatsopano ya gulu lanu lokonda. Chirichonse chikuwoneka bwino. Ndi momwe mungakonzekere chirichonse popanda kuchoka kwanu? Osadandaula, ndikukuuzani.
Mukhoza kuwawonetsa m'njira zingapo:
- Kugalamuka kwabwino: Kuyambira pa kadzutsa mpaka pabedi musanapsompsone milomo pa galasilo, kuchokera ku zikondamoyo mu mawonekedwe a mtima ku mawu akuti "Ndimakukonda" ndi ketchup pa mazira owouka. Maganizo ake ali m'manja mwanu - kumbukirani zimenezo.
- Sungani masana. Pitirizani kukumbukira bwino. Ikani zolemba zingapo ndi makalata achikondi achidule. Chimodzi mu chikwama chake - adzachiwona choyamba pamene akulipira ndalama kapena khofi. Ikani chachiwiri m'bukuli. Pamene akusowa kuti alembedwe, adzalowanso chimodzimodzi. Ndipo pangani uthenga wachitatu ndikuyika mu thumba kapena thumba.
- Nthano ya usiku. Anyamata akuyenda, koma mnyamatayo amakhalabe akusamba. Iye samachoka kulikonse. Anyamata, ngati atsikana, amakokera kudziko la zodabwitsa ndi nthano - Neverland. Kuchita masewera okondweretsa ndi mafumu okongola, kukonda amwenye ndi abambo oyenerera. Inu nokha mungamupatse nkhani yachinsinsi kwa akuluakulu. Bwerani, bwerani mu fanolo, konzani chakudya chokoma ndi kupita! Zowonjezeranso, mumudabwa ngati mutaphunzira kayendedwe ka kuvina kumimba kapena kuvina. O, ndipo musaiwale za phantoms. Mungathe kubwera ndi zofuna zanu kwa wokondedwa amene mungakwaniritse. Masewero oterewa, adzayenera kulawa.
Momwe mungakonzekerere zachikondi ndi manja anu
Koma chakudya chamadzulo pabedi ndi zobisika zobisika zathu chikondi sichikhazikika. Ndikukuuzani kuti muwonjezere chiwerengero cha zokondweretsa mu ubale wanu. Pali zambiri zomwe mungasankhe, momwe mungakonzekere zodabwitsa nokha ndi ndalama zochepa.
Chimene sichiyenera kunena, ndi zamakono zamakono lero - wothandizira wathu wofunikira:
- Ndithudi chibwenzi chanu pa foni kapena piritsi ali ndi zolemba zolemba. Akasokonezedwa, pangani kalata ndi zofuna zabwino. Pamene abwera kudzakumbukira tsikulo, adzakondwera ndi kuwonjezera kwanu.
- Ndizinthu zotani zomwe sizikanakhalapo za atsikana ndi teknoloji, ndikukhulupirira kuti mutha kulimbana nazo. Mukungoyenera kujambula zithunzi zojambula ndi zithunzi kapena kanema. Sankhani zithunzi zanu zabwino kapena zomwe mumakonda. Kumbukirani mawu osangalatsa kwambiri, oyambirira komanso omveka bwino "anu". Onjezerani izi zonse ndi nyimbo zomwe amakonda. Ndipo tumizani ndi makalata, skype, mamms kapena malo ochezera a pa Intaneti: Vkontakte, facebook, twitter, akusukulu.
- Zosayembekezereka zidzakhala kwa iye chikondi chachikulu "spam". Funsani abwenzi anu panthawi inayake kuti mumutumize uthenga wofanana ndi kachilombo kapena spam, koma ndi uthenga wachikondi. Mwachitsanzo, ngati foni yanu inagwedezeka ndikusankhidwa mu bukhu la foni la munthu wabwino kwambiri padziko lonse kuti mumutumize kuvomerezeka. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti uthengawu uyenera kubwera kwa iye osachepera ndi manambala a 15 nthawi yomweyo. Zidzakhala zokondweretsa komanso zachikondi, simukuvomereza?
- Ngati muli ndi luso lokonza nsalu, ikani dzanja lanu ku njira yake yozizira. Mwachitsanzo, chivundikiro chake. Pa intaneti pali kusiyana kwakukulu ndi mapiritsi a mapiritsi ndi mafoni a m'manja. Zomwe zimamveka kapena zopangidwa ndi chikopa ndi zotsika mtengo. Madzulo angapo - ndipo kudabwa kuli okonzeka.
Ngakhale malingaliro owopsya kwambiri, mu kuya kwa moyo, amalingalira. Pali njira zingapo zomwe zingasonyezere mmene akumvera:
- Zithunzi za chikondi, mwachitsanzo, kuyambira tsiku lomaliza la Valentine mungasindikize ndi kupanga zozizwitsa za iwo. Izi zachitika mophweka. Pezani ndondomeko pa intaneti, momwe mungapangire kacube kuchokera pa makatoni. Ndithudi muli ndi makatoni amtengo wapamwamba a mafuta kapena mapepala. Pamene makonzedwewo ali okonzeka, awulani mu kukula kwa zithunzi zomwe mwasankha. Mwachitsanzo, chithunzi chimodzi chomwe mungapite kumbali imodzi ya anayi.
- Chisangalalo chodabwitsa kwa iye chidzakhala mtengo wa chikondi chako. Inu mukhoza kuchita izo mwa njira ziwiri. Choyamba ndi mtengo wopangira. Kuti muchite izi, lembani mphika ndi dothi komanso mchenga. M'menemo, yikani nthambi zabwino. Chotsani masamba kwa iwo. Ndipo zithunzi zosankhidwa zimadulidwa malinga ndi mawonekedwe a tsamba lomwe mumakonda. Izi zikhoza kukhala pepala la mphero, kapena tsamba lachiwombe. Ndipo inu mukhoza kupanga masamba mu mawonekedwe a mtima. Izi zidzawapangitsa kukhala achikondi. Musaiwale kuti azikongoletsa pansi pa mphika ndi miyala yamitundu kapena ma confetti owala. Njira yachiwiri ndi yabwino kwambiri. Ndikoyenera ngati muli ndi maluwa a ku China omwe amapezeka kunyumba - hibiscus kapena ficus. Pa nthambi yawo mukhoza kumanga zithunzi. Mutha kuzimanga ndi nkhwangwa zokongola zofiira kapena pinki. Ndipo mukhoza kukongoletsa zithunzi zanu ndi mafelemu ofunika. Mwachitsanzo, kusokoneza buntings.
- Ngati chibwenzi chanu chimakonda kusewera, ndikumupangitsani kujambula zithunzi. Ingotenga zithunzi zosakumbukika. Kotero kuti akhoza kuyankha mosavuta funsolo. Chojambula ichi chiyenera kumumbutsa za zosangalatsa zabwino. Mafunso angakhale a mtundu "Ndi chiyani? Ali kuti? Ndi liti? ". Mwachitsanzo, chithunzi chochokera m'chaka Chatsopano choyamba ndi funso: "Ndakupatsani chiyani lero?", Kapena chithunzi cha ulendo wanu woyamba ku mudzi ndi funso lakuti "Ili kuti?". Ndikutsimikiza kuti muli ndi nyanja ya zithunzi zoterezi.
- Ndipo mukudziwa zomwe zingadabwe? Piñata yamatamando. Ndondomeko zopangira pang'onopang'ono zomwe mungapeze pa intaneti. Ndipo ndikukuuzani mwachidule. Inu mumapanga makatoni chimango kapena inu mumapeza mpira woganiziridwa. Mwachitsanzo, mwa mawonekedwe a mtima. Ndipo nkumangirira ndodo pa izo. Mukhoza kupanga piñata multicolored, koma mukhoza kupanga gradient (kuchokera kuwala kufikira mthunzi wamdima kapena mosiyana), mukhoza kuikiranso monikoni. Ndipo pa zolembera mumalemba zochitika zonse zogwira mtima, zachikondi ndi zokondweretsa: zokonda, zokongola, luso, zamphamvu, zojambula, zolimba ndi zina zotero. Ndipo ikani mphatso mu piñata yokha. Pambuyo pake, mfundo ndi yakuti anaphwanya.
- Ndipo ndi chiani chomwe chingakhale chakukondana kwambiri kuposa chipinda chosambira mu kandulo? Koma izi siziri zoyambirira. Koma vuto ili limathetsedwa mosavuta. Pamene malo osambira ali ndi chithovu, yikani botolo ndi uthenga wachikondi pansi pake. Mwinamwake muli ndi botolo la soya msuzi, mwinamwake vinyo? Kulembera mungathe kuwonjezera nthenga ndi sequins, kapena mungathe ndi chinachake chokondweretsa, mwachitsanzo, lace kuchokera pazipani. Ndipo zomwe zili mu uthenga uli nazo.
- Ngati mungathe kumanga nsalu, ndipo ali ndi mtolo wapadera, njira yotsatirayi kwa inu. Mphatso zachikondi ndi osiyana. Koma pali ena omwe wokondedwa wanu amatha kudzuka ndikugona. Pomwe amamukonda mtsamiro, mumatha kumukongoletsa. Icho chingakhale chirichonse. Nyimbo zochokera ku nyimbo yomwe amamukonda kapena nyimbo yanu. Ikhoza kukhala chidutswa cha ruby kapena chachidule, koma chokongola kwambiri. Kapena mwinamwake mndandanda wa zomwe mumamukonda. Kodi sizodabwitsa?
Komabe, sitingathe kuwerengera malingaliro a ndalama. Choncho, chinthu chamtengo wapatali ndi luso lofotokozera.