Chikondi ndikumverera kwa kukongola ndi kukongola, koma nthawi zambiri sikofunikira. Sikuti aliyense amatha kuzindikira nthawi izo zafooketsa ndipo zakhazikika maubwenzi zakhala zovuta kwambiri. Mwatsoka, nthawi zambiri timamvetsa izi mochedwa kwambiri, pamene sizivuta kuti tisiyanitse ndi mnzanu-ngakhale kuti sitinali okondedwa. Woman.ru amatsogolera zizindikiro za 13 kuti chikondi chasiya banja lanu lomwe kale linali losangalala, ndipo ndi nthawi yoti muganizire momwe mungathetsere bukuli.
Ngakhale maubwenzi a nthawi yayitali nthawi zambiri amapereka chisokonezo
Pamene mkazi amakumana ndi mwamuna kwa nthawi yaitali, ndiye, mwachiwonekere, chikhumbo chake chachibadwa ndicho kukwatira. N'zoona kuti pali mabanja ambiri amene sakufuna kulongosola chiyanjano chawo pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana, koma pazochitika zotere, abwenzi amagwiritsa ntchito chisankho pamodzi. Nanga bwanji ngati mwakhala mukugwirizana kwa zaka zambiri, osati kuti sangapite ku ukwati - iwo samangokhala? Kodi si mwamuna wanu, ndipo ndi nthawi yoti mupitirire?
Kutaya ubale wa nthawi zonse kumakhala kovuta nthawi zonse, makamaka ngati mwagulitsa kwambiri.
Komabe, ngati mutayamba kuzindikira kuti chikondi cha nthawi yaitali chayamba kukhala chizoloŵezi chokhala pamodzi, zikhoza kukhala nthawi yosinkhasinkha za chikondi chomwe chadutsa.
Mwatsoka, moyo nthawi zimachitika kumverera pang'onopang'ono adzafota, sangathe kubala mikangano kutali, zovuta, mtunda, kusintha kapena mavuto m'banja. Mwa izi sizomveka kuvomereza osati kwa mnzako yekha, koma, choyamba, nokha. Ena amatenga nthawi yaitali kuti azindikire kuti chikondi sichithanso za banja lanu. Nanga mumamvetsa bwanji kuti ndi nthawi yomaliza kukondana, kutengapo mbali?
Nthawi zonse amakhala ndi zifukwa
Pamene anakulirakulirabe, mwamuna wako anathamanga inu paulendo woyamba, koma tsopano ... Tsopano ntchito mochedwa, si bwino, bwenzi ankafunika thandizo mwadzidzidzi. Kawirikawiri, amapeza zifukwa zambiri zoti asakuwoneni kapena kukwaniritsa pempho lanu.
Ngati mwamuna nthawi zonse akufunafuna zifukwa, ngati sangakuthandizeni, mwachiwonekere, sakufuna kukusamalirani
Inde, anthu sayenera kusiya bizinesi yawo, kuti akusangalatse inu. Komabe, ngati zinthuzo zikubwerezabwereza nthawi zonse, izi zikhoza kutanthauza kuti mnzanuyo wakuzirala.
Kugonana kwakhala kosiyana
Kodi simukukumbukira kuti ndi liti pamene munagonana? Nthawi iliyonse mukagona pabedi, yambani kumpsompsona wokondedwa wanu, amachoka ndi mawu akuti: "Ndatopa"? Inde, mu gulu lirilonse pali nthawi za "kuthetsa" - gulu la zolepheretsa kuntchito, mavuto a thanzi la okondedwa ndi zinthu zina zosautsa zingathe kufooketsa chilakolako chanu chogonana.
Komabe, ngati "bar wakuda" atakokedwa kwa nthawi yayitali, iyi ndi nthawi yosonyeza: mwinamwake simukukondana wina ndi mzake?
Palinso vuto lina. Kugonana ndiko, koma anakulepheretsani kukonzekera: sichikupanganso chikondi, koma kusuntha komwe kumachitika. Cholinga chachikulu cha wokondedwa wanu chinali kukwaniritsa nokha, koma osati inuyo? Eya, zikuwoneka kuti sakusangalatsanso mbali yokhudzana ndi ubale wanu.
Iye safuna tsogolo logwirizana
Mwamuna wanu ananena mosapita m'mbali kuti sakufuna kukwatira, koma kodi mukuyembekezerabe "kumuphunzitsanso"? Mwatsoka, amayi ambiri amaganiza. Ndikhulupirire, ngati akunena kuti sadzakwatira, ndiye kuti.
Ngati mwamuna wanu akunena kuti sadzakwatirana, ndithudi, zidzakhala choncho
Katswiri wamaganizo a banja Paul Coleman akuti adalangiza ochuluka azimayi omwe adagwidwa mu intaneti ya maukwati obisala, osabereka ndipo adatulutsa axiom imodzi: asanakhale nawo mauthenga, nthawi zonse amalandira chenjezo. Pachifukwa ichi, ndi kulunjika mwachindunji ndi kosabisala posafuna kulenga banja. "Pali mtundu wa umunthu momwe munthu yekha amachitira zomwe amapereka, koma salandira chilichonse pobwezera. Ngati mumanyalanyaza malingaliro anu, zokhumba (pa nkhaniyi, ukwati), malingaliro chifukwa cha ubale, ndiye kuti muyenera kuthawa, "atero katswiriyo.
Iye samafunsa
Munthu akafunsa funso kwa munthu wina, ichi ndi chizindikiro chotsimikizirika kuti interlocutor ndi yosangalatsa kwa iye. Zikuwoneka kuti m'miyezi yoyamba ya mnzanuyo munthu wanu amayesa kukudziwani bwino ndikufunsa mafilimu omwe mumayang'ana komanso mabuku omwe mumakonda. Komabe, tcherani khutu kumzake. Kodi ali ndi chidwi ndi momwe mukuchitira, kodi tsiku lanu linali lotani, bwana anati chiyani za polojekitiyi ndi chakudya chokoma chimene mwasankha ku lesitilanti? Pamene munthu wanu amasiya kufunsa mafunso amenewa, ichi ndi chizindikiro chodziwika kuti sakufuna kukusamalirani.
Inu munasiya zomwe mumakonda
Mukukana mwayi wa ntchito, omudziwa bwino, abwenzi - ndi onse chifukwa cha munthu wina? "Ndikuyang'ana kumbuyo, mumadziwa kuti mulibe zinthu zambiri zomwe zingakupangitseni kukhala osangalala - mwachitsanzo, ntchito yabwino, yophunzira, zokonda zokonda. Monga lamulo, iwo omwe amachita mwanjira iyi amakakamizika kukhutira ndi zinthu zazing'ono.
Mu ubale woipa, anthu amakonda kudzipereka okha chifukwa cha wokondedwa
Khalidwe lachikhalidweli limakhala lachilengedwe kwa anthu omwe ali ndi ubale wosasangalatsa omwe sangathe kulingalira momwe zimakhalira moyo wawo, "akutero Dr. Coleman. Ngati mukumva kuti moyo umakupatsani inu, thawani ubale umenewu, mpaka mutaphonye chinthu chofunikira kwambiri!
Muli pachibwenzi ichi popanda chifukwa chodziwika
Anthu ambiri akupitiriza kukumana chifukwa cha zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi maganizo awo. Kodi mukukhala ndi munthu uyu chifukwa ndi nthawi yokwatira? Chifukwa abwenzi anu onse abwera kale ku ofesi ya registry? Kapena mwinamwake simungapeze munthu woyenera kwambiri? Ngati zili pamwambapa, osati zosangalatsa za kukhala pafupi ndi munthu - zifukwa zanu zazikulu, ndi nthawi yoganizira za izi, koma kodi mumachikonda?
Palibe aliyense wa inu amayesetsa
Kuti chiyanjano chikhale chogwirizana, onse awiri ayenera kuyesetsa ndikuganiza momwe amathera nthawi yawo pamodzi. Inde, mwamsanga mutangodziwa zonse zimangokhala palokha - ndi zophweka komanso zokondweretsa awiri a inu, ndipo mphindi iliyonse ya nthawi yaulere mumayesera kukhala pamodzi.
Ngati simukufuna kukonza zosangalatsa, mwina simukumukonda
Pakapita nthawi, agulugufe amatha kupezeka m'mimba, ndipo muyenera kupeza nthawi ya misonkhano. Ichi ndi, ndithudi, si chifukwa tinaleka, koma ndendende chifukwa chosowa zomwe gulu ndipo ambiri mabwenzi mapeto. Ngati simukufuna kukonza zosangalatsa, zimangonena kuti pang'onopang'ono maganizo anu amatha.
Kukana mapulani
Mudakonzekera kale tchuthi limodzi, kupita kumalo ochitira zisudzo, konsati, kapena ulendo wopita kwa makolo a munthu wina. Posachedwa, komabe, mnzanuyo adapewa mafunso anu omveka bwino okhudzana ndi mwambowu ndikunena kuti muli ndi nthawi yokwanira yothetsera vutoli ... Zachidziwikire, simuyenera kuchita mantha pano, koma akatswiri azamisala akuti izi zitha kukhala chimodzi mwazizindikiro za kuzirala pachibwenzi. Ngati pakadali pano mumadzizindikira, ndiye nthawi yoti muganizire chifukwa chake simukufuna kucheza ndi mwamuna wanu.
Liwu lanu lamkati limakuuzani kuchoka
Momwe mungamvetsetse kuti ndi nthawi yoswa mgwirizano? Nthawi zina mumangozidziwa. Komabe, kuti mutenge mozama mau anu amkati, muyenera kukhala ogwirizana ndi inu nokha.
Dzifunseni nokha ku funso: "Kodi ndiyenera kukhala ndi munthu uyu?".
Ngati mukukayikira, dzifunseni kawirikawiri, komanso mumakhudzidwa ndi malingaliro a abwenzi, amayi ndi anzanu, ndiye kuti simukufunika ayi: mwinamwake, munangosiya chikondi. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amalangizidwa kuti ayese pa mlingo umodzi kapena zana, momwe mumakhalira okondwa ndi mnzanuyo. Ngati osachepera makumi asanu ndi awiri, ndiye kuti mukuyenera kumagawana ndi mnzanuyo.
Zoipa zimaposa zabwino
Pamene wina akupanga chachiwiri kumva wosasangalala kapena asaaonerera pa iye udzaononga kudzidalira - zikunenedwa kuti za chikondi aliyense ku mbali zake sindikuyankhula. Pankhaniyi palibe njira ina yochokeramo, kupatula momwe mungagawire. Mabwenzi ena samabweretsa chimwemwe kwa maphwando alionse, ndipo muyenera kukhala owona mtima nokha poyamba - si munthu wanu ayi.
Mukulongosola maubwenzi awa nthawi zonse
"Iye si woipa kwambiri ... Ali ndi mphamvu zake," - mawuwa amamveka kawirikawiri ndi achibale a maganizo. Akatswiri a Ubale amanena kuti akazi omwe amanena mawu otere amadziwa bwino kuti ubale watha, koma iwo sangathe kuvomereza. Ambiri mwagonana amamva kusiyana pakati pa malingaliro a moyo ndi mnzawo, komabe komabe amadzipangitsa okha kutsimikiza kuti chirichonse sichili choipa.
Akazi amayamba kuganiza kuti buku lopanda phindu silili loipa kwambiri ngati likuwonekera poyamba
Malinga ndi akatswiri a zamaganizo, pamene munthu amakayikira za momwe bukuli lingathekere, koma iye sali wokonzeka kuchoka, akuyang'ana zifukwa zokhalamo, chifukwa ndi njira yophweka. Chimene, ngakhale, chimatsogolera kumalo.
Inu munataya nokha
Ngati mutapeza kuti zaka zingapo ubalewo wasintha mkati mwathu kuti usadziwike, ndi chizindikiro choganiza ngati ndi nthawi yoti muchite chinachake. Inde, ndi zachilendo kusintha, koma ngati simukudzikumbukira nokha musanakumane ndi mnzanu, izi ziyenera kukuchenjezani. Dzifunseni nokha ku funso: "Kodi kusintha kumeneku kunakhudza khalidwe langa ndi ubwino wanga, kapena ndangopanga chilichonse kuti munthuyu andikonde?". Ngati mumakonda kwambiri njira yachiwiri, muyenera kusiya ubwenzi wanu.
Mumayamikira maganizo, kudalira kokha kapitawo kapena kalelo
Tonsefe timakonda kukumbukira nthawi zosangalatsa zakale - palibe cholakwika ndi izo. Komabe, wina ayenera kudziwa kuchuluka kwake - ambiri a ife, mwatsoka, tayiwala za izi ponena za buku lolephera. Anthu ambiri amakonda kuchepetsa zoipa, chifukwa m'mbuyomu, wokondedwayo anali pafupi: ankavala manja ake, amamvetsera ndi kusamalidwa.
"Tsopano wasintha, koma zonse ziyenera kubwereranso," timadzitonthoza. Sadzabwerera.
Zowonjezera zina ndikudalira zamtsogolo. Mukuganiza kuti munthu wanu akadzalemera / atasiya kumwa / kukwatira / kukhala bambo, zonse zidzasintha, ndipo ubale wanu udzakhala wosiyana - kuposa tsopano. Mwachidule, khalani ndi chiyembekezo chabodza kuti mawa azisewera ndi malamulo osiyanasiyana, asanduke munthu wabwino. Malinga ndi akatswiri a zamaganizidwe, ndichifukwa chodzinyenga koteroko kuti azimayi ambiri "amacheza" mu zibwenzi zomwe safunikira kwenikweni. Ngati mumadzizindikira mu zitsanzo izi, tikukulangizani kuti muganizire izi, chifukwa mumakonda munthu wolakwika yemwe ali pafupi nanu.
Source: woman.ru