Teenager thiab social networks: yuav ua li cas saib nws hauv Facebook thiab VKontakte

Facebook thiab lwm lub koom txoos sib koom tes tau ua ib qho chaw nyob tas mus li rau cov menyuam feem ntau tom qab tsev kawm ntawv, thiab qhov no yog ib qho ntawm cov laj thawj thiab ua rau koj nyob hauv lawv. Kuv yuav tsis xav ntau dua: Yog tias koj tus menyuam muaj social account, koj yuav tsum tau nkag mus rau lawv. Qhov no yog qhov tseeb.

Cov me nyuam cov ntawv tuaj yeem cuam tshuam tag nrho cov cheeb tsam ntawm lawv lub neej, nrog rau kev kawm, kev ua haujlwm thiab kev lom zem, thiab cov haujlwm ua haujlwm. Nyob rau hauv kev sib tham teenagers sib ntaus sib tua, sib ntsib, sib tham, sau ntawv ua lwm homework, nrhiav thiab poob phoojywg. Kev tsis lees paub qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws ntawm kev ua neej nyob rau cov hluas, koj tsis quav ntsej txog koj txoj haujlwm ntawm niam txiv. Kuv paub qhov suab quaj nyuaj, tab sis nws yeej muaj tseeb.

Kuv yuav qhia koj kom "fuck" koj cov me nyuam hauv Facebook thiab sim ua kom lawv ntxiv rau koj "phooj ywg." Yog tias cov me nyuam ua qhov no, ces koj qhov hauj lwm tom ntej yog zais thiab nyob twj ywm. Tsis txhob sau rau ntawm lawv cov phab ntsa ib lo lus, tsis txhob tawm tswv yim rau lawv nyiam, posts thiab outposts.

Feem ntau, tsis ntev koj cov menyuam yuav tsis nco qab tias ib txhiab tus lawv cov "phoojywg" yog koj, lawv yuav tsis nco txog koj kev tuaj yeem nyob rau hauv lub network. Nws yog txij thaum no koj yuav qhib qhov chaw tshiab ntawm koj cov tub thiab ntxhais. Tam sim no, yog tias lawv sau los yog tso ib yam dab tsi kiag li unseemly - thiab qhov ntau yam ntawm qhov no siab - koj tuaj yeem tham nrog lawv ib leeg txog lawv xav tias lawv yog lawv tus kheej.

Xaiv cov laj thawj ntawm kev sib tham. Cov lus tsis muaj tseeb thiab foul lus yuav ignored thiab tsis hais, tab sis tus hais txog kev haus dej caw los yog siv yeeb siv tshuaj yuav ceeb toom koj. Koj tuaj yeem tawm tsis muaj kev sib tham tsis sib thooj, lub npe uas koj tsis nyiam. Tab sis nws yog tsim nyog los hais tias nws tus ntxhais tshem tawm los ntawm lub network nws cov duab nyob rau hauv seductive poses.

Facebook, zoo li lwm qhov chaw zoo sib xws, yav tom ntej yuav tsis mus nyob qhov twg, yog li koj yuav tsum xav txog nws li kev kawm twj. Qhov no yog ib qhov chaw zoo uas koj tuaj yeem kawm pej xeem lub tswv yim thiab tsim nws. Ntawm no koj tuaj yeem txiav txim tau, qhov kev tshwm sim uas yuav muaj kev xav rau ntau xyoo ntxiv.

Yog tias kuv yog koj, Kuv yuav tsis qhia rau cov me nyuam tias koj tsis tuaj yeem siv Facebook, vim nws yog ib qho cuab yeej uas ua tau lub luag haujlwm tseem ceeb hauv lawv lub neej. Tab sis qhov no yog vim li cas koj yuav tsum saib xyuas koj cov menyuam hauv lub vev xaib no. "Taug qab ib nplooj Facebook" ntawm koj feem yog tsis muaj txhais tau tias yog kev ywj pheej ntawm tus kheej ntawm tus me nyuam, vim Facebook tsis muaj dab tsi tus kheej los yog tus kheej kheej. Qhov no, los ntawm txoj kev, yuav yog ib qho tseem ceeb tshaj plaws rau koj cov me nyuam.

Yog tias tus me nyuam tsis kam "zafrend" rau hauv Facebook, ces koj muaj ob peb txoj kev xaiv rau kev pib taug. Ua ntej tshaj plaws, koj tuaj yeem yuam nws kom ua tau li no, hem tias yuav kaw nws cov nyiaj. Txawm li cas los xij, yog tias nws los txog rau qhov no, tus menyuam tuaj yeem pib sau nyiaj tshiab thiab qhia rau tag nrho nws cov phooj ywg, kom koj qhov kev mob siab yuav tsis muab txhua yam rau koj. Yog vim li ntawd kuv thiaj li tsis pom zoo ua qhov no.

Qhov kev xaiv thib ob yog nug ib tug neeg ntawm cov phooj ywg los yog cov neeg hauv tsev neeg kom "zafrendit" koj tus me nyuam, thiab tom qab nws saib nws thiab qhia koj yog tias muaj qhov tsis zoo rau kev ceeb toom. Kuv ua nws rau kuv cov phooj ywg qub, thiab txhua yam ua haujlwm zoo. Yog tias cov phooj ywg yuav tsum nrog cov menyuam tham txog qee cov posts hauv Facebook, lawv tsis tau qhia tias lawv tau txais cov ntaub ntawv los ntawm kuv. Lawv tsuas hais tias: "Cov ntaub ntawv no yog nyob rau hauv qhov chaw sau, thiab txhua tus tuaj yeem nrhiav nws yog tias lawv xav tau." Tej kev sib tham no ua rau me nyuam yaus rov qab ua dua thiab rov qab qhia lawv dua: tso tawm rau lub network tuaj yeem pom txhua tus - thiab txhua yam kev ntsuas kev ruaj ntseg tsis muaj txiaj ntsig.

Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev uas koj, nyob rau hauv lub luag haujlwm ntawm cov phoojywg muag tim ntsej tim muag, coj tus cwj pwm zoo rau cov menyuam yaus. Cia taug qab lawv cov posts, saib cov kev sib tham nthuav tawm, tab sis tsis koom rau hauv lawv. Tsis muaj teeb meem tsis xa cov duab ntawm koj cov menyuam hauv lub network thiab tsis txhob qhia "funny stories" txog lawv, tsis tau tso cai ua ntej los ntawm lawv. Tsis muaj dab tsi tshwm sim sai sai rau "rasfrenzhivaniyu", raws li tau tso tawm hauv lub network "funny" duab ntawm koj tus tub hluas thaum muaj hnub nyoog peb, hnav mus hauv ib tug muam nrog hnav. Cia koj phab Facebook yuav rau siab rau koj. Qhia kev hwm rau koj cov menyuam yaus, vim cov duab rau lawv yog qhov tseem ceeb heev.

Ib qho ntawm koj txoj dej num yog los saib xyuas qhov zoo ntawm txoj kev tshiab ntawm kev sib txuas lus hauv lub network. Ntawm no nws yog ib qhov tsim nyog siv zog siv zog, raws li hnub no tus me nyuam npaj tswv yim tshiab dua peb. Nug kom cov me nyuam qhia lawv daim ntawv sau npe ntawm cov xov tooj - thiab ua tib zoo mloog lawv cov lus: koj yuav pom ntau yam! Saib TV qhia tias sib tham txog qhov chaw zoo nkauj rau cov hluas: koj them tsis taus cov zaubmov hauv qhov tsaus ntuj thaum nws tuaj txog cov technologies uas nqus lub neej ntawm koj cov menyuam.

Koj txoj hauj lwm yog los nrhiav kev tshuav ntawm qhov no thiab tag nrho lwm qhov ntawm koj tus menyuam lub neej. Ua li no, koj yuav tsum hais kom lawv ua ncaj ncees rau koj. Qhov thib ob yam tseem ceeb: nco ntsoov ua tib zoo mloog cov me nyuam qhia koj. Ua kom yoog thiab muaj zog, hloov tau rau txoj kev tshwm sim. Pab kev daws teeb meem ib qho thiab tawm ib sab. Thiab tsis txhob hnov ​​qab ua pa.

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