Kutheni ukuthanda ngokwakho yeyona nto iphambili ukuze umntu azixabise

Njengoko uyazi, uthando lwakho lokuzithanda luphawu olusisiseko kuye nawuphi na umntu omncedayo ukuba adlule ebomini kwindlela elungileyo: khetha amaqabane afanelekileyo, uyavuma ukusebenza kunye neemeko ezilungileyo kwaye ukhokele indlela yokuphila efaneleyo.

Lonke uloyiko lwethu, iingxaki kunye nokunye okungaqhelekanga - enyanisweni, azinjalo. Azikho. Zidalwe yingqondo yethu engaphumliyo kunye neziganeko ezithile ezizinza kwisigqibo sethu esiphantsi ukuze sibethe kuthi into yokuzahlula, ukuthandabuza, ukujonga izinto ezahlukeneyo kunye neentlobo ezahlukeneyo zoloyiko.

Isihogo sikhona ngokwenene. Kodwa hayi apho sicinga, kodwa ebomini bokwenyani. Sidala ngokwethu, ngezandla zethu. Siyazigaya kwipani kwaye sizidwebe iidemon ezahlukeneyo. Yonke le nto yenzeka kuba siyayeka ukukholelwa kuthando. Kodwa kukho iindaba ezimnandi nazo. Ukubaleka ngesihogo xa uthumela uthando kuye.

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Kuthetha ukuthini ukuthanda wena? Le yimeko xa uzamkela ngokupheleleyo, ngalo lonke uloyiko, iintsilelo kunye nokuthandabuza. Uyavuma ukuba awufezekanga kwaye kwangaxeshanye uzithumela uthando njengeyeza. Khawufane ucinge umntwana elila, esentlungwini, ngequbuliso umama wakhe eze kuye. Uyamanga, amange, aze ancame. Ngendlela efanayo, kufuneka uziphathe ngokwakho, ngeentsilelo zakho, ezingekhoyo-kuya kufuneka ukuba uzixhase ngokwengqondo, ukwanga nothando. Kwaye zonke iingxaki ziya kunyibilika. Umntu ngamnye unokuzilapha ngokwakhe uthando.

Sukubhidanisa uthando lokuzithanda kunye nokuzingca. Ukuzingca luphawu oluyimfuneko. Ekuqaleni, umntu kufuneka abe nokuzithanda. Xa uzithumela uthando kwaye uqonde ukuba ngalo mzuzu kufuneka ugcwaliswe ngamandla, iimvakalelo ezilungileyo, emva koko ukhanyise i-egoism, thatha itikiti kwaye uhambe uye kwi-sanatorium. Kodwa kuqala, kufuneka kubekho ukuthanda ngokwakho-imvakalelo elahla kude nayiphi na imiqobo kwindlela yakho. Xa uluqonda olu thando, ubona injongo kwaye ungaboni miqobo.

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