Ubomi abunakuba yintsomi nje – ngamanye amaxesha wonke umntu uba neemvakalelo ezingakhiyo. Umncedisi we-cafe wayekrwada, umphathi wakunika iiprojekthi ezongezelelweyo ongenaxesha lazo, kwaye abantwana basekhaya abakuphulaphula ngokupheleleyo. Kubalulekile ukuba ungavumeli i-negativity ikulawule. Kodwa nakwezona mvakalelo zimnandi unokungenelwa.
Mhlawumbi ezona mvakalelo zimbi zibalulekileyo yingqumbo nomona. Ukususela ebuntwaneni, abazali bethu basixelela ukuba akulunganga ukucaphuka nokuba nomona. Umama wasingcikiva ngokuba nomona ngomfundi ofunda naye owazi ngakumbi i-physics kwaye onokwazi kuphela "ukucofa" iingxaki kwiimvavanyo, okanye umhlobo onemilenze emangalisayo kunye namabele akhe amile ngokugqibeleleyo. Umona kunye nentukuthelo ziimvakalelo eziqhelekileyo zomntu, into ephambili kukufunda ukuzisebenzisa ngobulumko.
Yintoni esikhubekisayo?
Sivakalelwa kukuba abanye abaziphathanga ngendlela ebesilindele ngayo. Konke oku kuvela ebuntwaneni, kwaye njengabantu abadala sidlulisela imodeli ethile yokuziphatha kubudlelwane bethu kunye neqabane lethu. Umntu uziva engonwabanga xa edibana nento engaqhelekanga, engaqhelekanga, engahambelani neengcamango zakhe kunye nemilinganiselo yobomi - kwaye apha akukho kude nokukhubeka. Into ephambili kukuqonda izizathu zokukhathazeka kwakho, uziqonde kwaye usebenze ngazo, kunye nokubuyisela imida yokuthuthuzela kwakho. Umsebenzi ophambili wokucaphuka kukulawula indawo yakho yokuthuthuzela.
Akukho nto inomona
Umona yenye imvakalelo abantu abadla ngokuba neentloni ngayo baze bazifihle. Kodwa akukho lula ngolo hlobo. Ukuba uyayiqonda kwaye ujonge nzulu kwimo yolu vakalelo, ngoko asimoneli izinto eziphathekayo zabanye abantu, kodwa iimpawu zobuqu abanazo. Umona ngokuqinisekileyo yimvakalelo etshabalalisayo yaye, ukuba awulawulwa, unokude ukhokelele kwiingxaki zempilo. Noko ke, sinokuwusebenzisa umona wethu ukuze kungenelwe thina ukuba asigxininisi kwizinto ezingakhiyo, kodwa cinga ngendlela yokukhulisa kuthi iimpawu ozinqwenelayo. Ezo mvakalelo zingathandekiyo xa uthi krwaqu nje zinokusebenza njengesixhobo esinamandla sokukhula komntu kunye nokuziphuhlisa.
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