Tiri kurota kukura kubudirira, kuzvimiririra nekugadzira vana. Zvose kuitira kuti vararame hupenyu hwakazara, hwakachengeteka uye hunofadza. Asi tinokanganwa nezvehutano hunokosha, husina huri hwakaoma zvikuru kuti ufare? Uyu mutsa. Haitiiti kuti isu ...
Vabereki vanoda kuita chinhu kurera mwana ane utano hwakanaka uye vakabudirira: mangwanani kusimudzira mutambo mune manapukeni, kuranga, dzidzo yepamusoro uye madzidzisiro. Tichafanirawo kugamuchira kuti hazvigoneki kutonga nyika yekunze, iyo inogona kukuvadza mwana.
Mukadzi mumwe nomumwe anoda kuendesa kumwanasikana wake chimwe chiitiko, kunze kwezvikanganiso zvakafanana, kupa huchenjeri asati atendeuka kubva kumusikana kusvika kumusikana. Imwe amai vakaita runyora rwezvinhu 50 zvaaida kudzidzisa mwanasikana wake makore 18 asati apfuura. Inoratidzika seyiyi.
Sezvo vabereki vangada vana kuita zvose zvavanokumbira kwavari. Asi iyi ndiyo kukanganisa kukuru. Kana tichida kuti mwana aite chimwe chinhu, tibatsire isu, kana, pakupedzisira, tirambe tichidzidza muchiChirungu, saka chido chedu chimwe hachikwani. Zvakakosha izvo
Nenguva ipi isu isu, vabereki, tinonzwa kuti mwana anofanira kururamiswa nekukurumidza, kudzidziswa, kurayirirwa munzira yakarurama. Tinozviita nekuda kwezvinangwa zvepamusoro. Munhu wose anoda kukura shanduko yakanaka yega: ane njere, akachenjera, mwana anofara. Asi mune zvido zvavo, vanhu vakuru
Vanachiremba zvepfungwa dzevana vanogara vachishandisa mifananidzo yevana kuti vaongorore. Vabereki vanotarisawo muhutano hwemwanakomana wavo kana mwanasikana wavo, vachiedza kuwana mhinduro kumubvunzo unonakidza unoti: "Mwana ari kukura zvakanaka here? Chii chinomutinetsa? ". Pane zvirongwa zviri nyore izvo
"Chii ichocho - zvawakumbira - chinyararire bvisa nemarutsi, uye kusiya kamuri," Nhasi, misimboti dzidzo muvandudzi Benjamin Spock, pediatricians zhinji tenda chokwadi kwete chete, asiwo pamwe chinokuvadza, kunyange makore 50-60 kare inobva mubhuku "The Child uye mumuchengete "
