Mhuri dzakakura nyika inokosha, sechechi duku. Nepo vanaamai vane mwana mumwe chete vari kurwisana uye vachiedza kuwana hutano muhupenyu hwavo, vanaamai vazhinji vanogona kuratidza zvishamiso zvekurera, sangano nerunyararo. Ndezvipi izvi: zvinhu zvehutano, zvakakosha zvakavanzika kana kuti ichokwadi here kuti munhu anogara achiremera?
Dzimwe nguva zvinoratidzika sechishamiso kuti vana vakasiyana nemasikirwo nemakore vanogona kuwirirana nyore pasi pedenga rimwe. Asi iwe uchiri kuda kuronga hupenyu hwavo, zororo, munhu wose kuti adye uye anoteerere! Mhuri huru ine zvido zvayo uye zvinoda, saka amai havagoni kuzviita pasina unyanzvi hwehutano uye chirango.
Pasinei nokuti mhuri dzose dzakasiyana, ruzivo rwokuva nevana vakuru runogona kubatsira kunyange mhuri dzine mwana mumwe. Amai vevana vasere (makamuri mashanu ekugamuchira uye vatatu hama) - Olesya Likhunova - akaudza peji yake Facebook kuti anobata sei nevana vakawanda. Mumhuri yavo, pane mitemo yakajeka, iyo pasina maitiro. Ndiyo iyi inobatsira Olesa kupona chero dambudziko rehuduku.
Zvakavanzika zvedzidzo kubva kune amai vakawanda
Mhuri yedu pane mitemo yakajeka yekuita (izvo zvinogona uye zvisingafaniri kuitwa), izvo zvinokurukurwa mberi uye zvinoshandisa pasinei nevekupera kwevhiki, mazororo, kuuya kwevaenzi, nezvimwewo.
Chirango chekuputsa kwemitemo inobvunzurudzwa mberi uye inotora mutadzi wacho aripo. Izvi zvinoreva kuti handiti kunyevera zana (ini ndicharova, ndicharova ikozvino) -huwandu hweimwe.
Chirango hachikwanisi kudzorerwa kune imwe nguva, kunonyorerwa kana kuti neimwe nzira yakashanduka. Nokudaro, handifaniri kuva nekutya, kufunga nezvekuranga mwana uye kusava nechokwadi kana ndisina kufara. Basa rangu nderokuona kuti chirango chinotevera kukanganisa. Kunyarara, pasina mitsipa uye kuchema.
Zvinoratidzika, zvakanaka, zvakajeka, asi chaizvoizvo vabereki vakawanda havakwanisi kumira zvakakanganiswa.
- Mutemo iwoyo unoshandurwa zvisingatarisirwi uye izvo zvaisawanzobvira, kamwe kamwe nokuda kwounhu hwakanaka kana kana mubereki akanyanya kubatikana - anobvumirwa.
- Izvozvo zvinonyeverwa mazana maviri, asi kwete kurangwa.
- Vanoranga, asi havauyise kumagumo, uye vanokanganwira nguva isati yasvika kana kunze kwekunzwira tsitsi ("Zvakanaka, zvakanaka, akaziva kuti zvakanga zvisingakwanisi kuzvibata").
- Vanoruramiswa nekuti ivo vane rudzi rwakadaro rushoma rwemwana asingatungamiri kurudziro rwechirango ("Kwete, isu pachigaro haingagari, anongobva kunze uye anofamba nezvebhizimisi rake"). Somugumisiro, mwana wacho anotungamirira mubereki, haatore mazwi ake zvakanyanya.
Ini handigone kuwana mamiriro ezvinhu aya. Simba rangu harifaniri kukonzera chero ani zvake wevana kuti ashake, zvisinei kuti chisarudzo chichatanga.
Mwana wose anofanira kuziva kuti ane munhu mukuru akakura anoita zvisarudzo zvekupedzisira, uyo anoziva nzira yekudzivirira, kunyarara, zvakananga. Zvadaro mwana anogona kuchengetedza mwana uye achidzikama achitamba uye achikura, nokuti zvinhu zvose zviri pasi pekutonga. Kana munhu mukuru - mukuru uye anozvivimba, mwana akanaka.
Apo ini ndotanga kutaura zvakanyanyisa pamusoro pehutungamiri hwedu, vamwe vanhu vanotanga kufunga kuti tine mamiriro emasimba mumusha medu, vana vanogara vakanyarara uye vanotya kutaura rimwe nguva, uye vakuru vanodhura meno avo. Hapana chimwe chezvinhu. Zvakananga nokuti zvose zvakajeka uye zvakajeka, tine nzvimbo yakadzikama mumhuri. Vana vane rudo, vabereki vanofara.
Kunyange zvakadaro ndinoziva kuti tsika yekunyatsoona mitemo iri nyore ichagara nemwana paanokura. Uye haazopemberi nomugwagwa munzvimbo isina kunaka, haazosiyi ndiro dzakasviba manheru kuitira mangwanani uye achakwanisa kudzivisa chikamu chechitatu chekeke.
Nezvokuranga kwedu, ini ndatove ndanyora, asi pamusoro payo inowanzobvunzwa.
Vaduku ndivo vanowanzorangwa nekugara pachigaro chakanaka. Anomira mumugwagwa uye anonzi "chirango". Vakuru vanorangwa nekudziviswa chero chinhu (dessert kana kutarisa TV) kana kuregererwa kweusununguko (mitambo yose mukati mekamuri / pass passpping).
Somuenzaniso. Kristina akakwira mubhokisi reVafkin muchifu uye pasina mvumo akatora girazi rinokudza kubva ipapo. Ndinoti iwe haugoni kutora zvinhu zvevamwe vanhu, ndinokumbira girazi kuti idzoserwe panzvimbo uye ini ndinotumira Chris kuchigaro chechirango chemaminitsi 5, ndinotanga nguva. Kristina achinyenyeka uye anotsamwa achienda kuchigaro uye agere ipapo akatsamwa. Nguva yekuyera, mwana wacho akasununguka.
Kana. Nina anodanidzira achiti: "Vadim, iwe iwe benzi here?". Kurambwa kubva kwatiri kwakarambidzwa. Pachine maminitsi e9 pachigaro.
Kana. Vadim achipfuura nekati kunwa kubva mundiro, akarova ruoko rwake kumashure. Zvinorambidzwa kukanganisa kittens. Pachigaro chemi 6 maminitsi.
Nguva pane nguva yacho inoratidzirwa nehuwandu hwemakore. Kana mwana wacho achipamba mukona (anoramba achitsamwa uye achikanda zvakanyanya mashizha), ndinonyevera uye ndinowedzera nguva.
Muenzaniso wechipiri. Vakwegura vanotamba muMonopoly. Pane imwe nguva, Cyril anotanga kuchema, nokuti haatakuri, uye anorasikirwa. Ndinokunyeverai. Cyril zvakare akashatirwa, achidanidzira kakangodaro paanenge achichema, kukakavadzana nevanhu vose, vanokanda mumapuropu emitambo. Anobva muimba yake kweawa kuti anyarare.
Kana. Nina akaputsika mukati meawa rakanyarara uye akawira pasi pamusoro wake. Tsika Nina inorambidzwa, nokuti mumusoro ndeye shunt. Mazuva matatu asina tape rekodhi (anoverenga chikamu cheawa yakanyarara, uye hafu yechipiri inoteerera nyaya dzehurukuro).
Kana. Maria aive akaremara zvekuita basa rake rechikoro paFrench uye mudzidzisi akashandisa nguva yekudzidza paanenge achiongorora. Kufamba hakuendi manheru.
Somuenzaniso, ini handisi kuuya nechingwa kana imba yacho isina kunatswa mushure mokunge mutambo uye tafura isati yakagadzirirwa.
Maminitsi gumi nemashanu ndisati ndasunungura mahwendefa, ndinonyevera vose vakuru uye vaduku (idzi idzi makamuri maviri akasiyana nemitambo yakasiyana) kuti nokukurumidza kudya kwemanheru kuchave. Muimba yevasikana, vana vanochenesa mapepa nemakadhi kubva pasi, vanopukuta tafura, vanoisa mabhuku, mitambo nezvimwe zvinhu munzvimbo dzavo. Munzvimbo yevakomana, vaduku vanounganidza muumbi wose nematayiri kubva pasi mubhokisi, edza zvigaro munzvimbo dzavo. Ndinotarisa kana zvinhu zvose zvakakwana, saka ndinounza kudya kwemanheru. Kana zvisina kudaro, handingauyi kune chimwe chinhu.
Kana kuti muenzaniso wechipiri. Vana vanoenda kunofamba, kana vari vashandi vavo vakagadzirira. Hapana mutemo - iwe unogara, unoisa zvinhu pamwe chete. Pane dzimwe nguva Galya akagara, ndokubva atanga kuongorora mupfeki asati anofamba.
Pakati pese, ndinoedza kusave nekutya pamusoro pezvinyengeri uye kudzidzisa nekunakidza.
Somuenzaniso, kana ndikaisa ndiro yezvokudya pamberi pomwana, uye iye haati "ndinokutendai," Ndinobva ndangotora ndiro yacho muchikicheni chinyararire. Anodanidzira shure kwake, "o, hongu, ndiri spasibo!" - Ndiri kuuya.
Muenzaniso wechipiri. Ndinounza Vadim chirayiro, uye anotanga kudanidzira kuti haadi kudya chinhu chinotyisa zvakadaro. Zvinyararire ndinobvisa phariji, ndinounza mapekeki echando kubva mufiriji pahote. Vadim achishamisika: "O, chii ichi?" Ini: "Hausi kuda kupisa, bata!" Vadim: "Zvakanaka, zvakanaka, ndinoda kupisa!"
Muenzaniso wechitatu. Ndinozarura chifukidzo cheGalin chevashandi kuti ndiwane bhanhire rakasununguka rebvudzi rangu uye ndinocherechedza kuti kune candy candy wrappers, mamwe mapepa uye napkins zvakasviba muhodhi yepamusoro. Ndinoyeuka. Mushure mekudya kwemasikati, ndinounza vana mabhanana, ndizarurire kuna Kristina uye ndinokanda chikamu muhomwe yepamusoro Galina chest: "Vana, zvino mukicheni hazvirevi kusanganisira marara, unogona kukanda pano! Zvakanaka chaizvo! ". Inenge hafu yeawa mubhokisi ikozvino yakarongeka zvakanaka.
Muenzaniso wechina. Ndiri kubika kudya. Christina anogomera kuti atova nenzara uye haagoni kumirira maminitsi gumi. Ini ndikati: "Zvakanaka, zvakanaka!" Uye uise mukapu kadiki yepasta isina kuputika uye chidimbu chekukutu. "Ugh, chii ichi?" Ini handidi! "" Zvakanaka, iwe haugone kumirira sevamwe vana, asi haukwanisi kubika! "" Kwete, ndinoda kumbomira kupfuura pane. " Uye nguva inotevera inotsanangura kana kudya kwacho kuchangopera nokukurumidza uye kana zvokudya zvikabikwa.
Muenzaniso wechishanu. Kana Vadim asingabudiriri, anotanga kupfura pasi, achidanidzira, achichema uye achichema. Kazhinji, ndinonyevera kuti ini ndichatora muumbi, kana achienderera mberi nemweya mumwe chete. Dzimwe nguva ndinozvidzorera kana ndikapfuurira. Munguva ichangopfuura ndakati sezvo yakanyanya kuduku zvokuti inoruma nekukundikana kwose, saka ndine mhinduro yakarurama: a pacifier uye diaper. Vadim vakaseka, asi vakamira vachidanidzira. Iye zvino, kana pane chimwe chinhu, ndinowira mumusuo, ndichimhanya-cheka uye ndinononoka, uye Vadim achangomuka, achiseka uye anoti: "Zvakanaka, zvose, zvose, handidi!".
Zvechokwadi, pane dzimwe nguva kune misiyo isingaenzaniswi, apo ini ndichiputsa, kushungurudza, uye kwenguva yakareba nekujekesa chikonzero nei zvakashata kuita kana kutaura izvi. Kunyange ini ndinogumburwa, zvinoitika. Asi izvi zvegore rapfuura zvave zvisingawanzoitiki. Paminwe iwe unogona kuverenga zviitiko zvakadaro. Zvingave kuti vana vakakura, kana kuti vose vanoshandiswa kuchengetedza mukati memiganhu yemitemo inogamuchirwa.
Zvinhu zvose zvinopera, zvose zvinoshanduka, zvechokwadi, pachava nematambudziko ane chokuita nezera muvana. Asi kana tikanzwa mumwe nomumwe nevana, saka handina mubvunzo kuti tichatarisana nezvinhu zvose, tichararama kuburikidza nezvose.
Source: ihappymama.ru